Navy Familes

I am not a Navy wife, girlfriend, daughter or Mother. But, I was in the presence of them recently as they said goodbye to their loved ones. I was in awe of these women and children as they gathered around for a final picnic (for now) together. Sticking close to each other sharing stories, taking pictures, grabbing quick kisses, longing glances, special hugs and soft touches that will have to last them until they get to see each other again. What I didn't see was any resentment or anger at the men for leaving them behind for so long. No arguments about staying too late at work or saying why me I'm being left here to carry on alone. They understand even though they might not like it how important the job is these men are being sent out to do.


These women and children are amazing, the sacrifices they make just astound me. They take care of everything while these men are gone. The house, the bills, the children and some while keeping a job too with little thanks and yet there they stood on that pier. Standing tall waving as their loved ones pulled away wiping a tear staying strong for the little ones.

I can't tell you how proud I was of my daughter that day, how proud I was of all of those women there. They say the men going out to war are hero's and I agree. But after being on that pier that day I consider these women real hero's too!

I didn't include myself in the beginning of this story because I have not yet become one of the women I have described above. The standards are high and I can't even stand on the pier without breaking down. I hope one day I will have half my daughters strength and be lucky enough to meet more of the women she has become friends with. Until then I will be working on my Navy Mother-in-law status.

Be safe all you men ... and to you women I hope this underway goes quickly and that your days go smoothly... it was an honor to meet you!